Intentional

Divorce

Ceremonies

During a divorce or separation…

A lot of heavy or complicated feelings come up.

THE PROBLEM is that there often is no space to hold all those feelings, in the midst of all the logistics involved in separating.

Maybe you’ve cried about the loss of this person. Maybe you’ve been mad at them. Maybe you’ve talked to your friends about it. Maybe you’re still holding onto some stuff that was left unsaid or undone.

But… life needs to go on, right?

So you focus on logistics. You focus on uncoupling your lives, selling your home, figuring out a new schedule.

And eventually, you start moving on. You start filling the holes. You start going on dates. You start getting really busy because you don’t want to think about it.

But you know what?

The part of you that has been wounded is still holding on, and never got closure.

Introducing:

Intentional Divorce Ceremonies

For individuals who want to create closure after a relationship ends, and move forward freer and more available for what’s next.

Walk away with:

  • Emotional Release: Say the things that have been left unsaid and let go of the weight of unexpressed feelings.

  • Healing and Closure: Create a definitive end to your relationship, which allows for a healthier transition into the next chapter of your life.

  • Compassion and Understanding: Gain a deeper sense of compassion for yourself and your former partner by acknowledging your shared humanity and the challenges you've faced together.

  • Freedom to Move Forward: By processing your grief and finding closure, you can approach future relationships with a renewed sense of openness and availability. You may even choose to share hopes you have for one another as you move forward. 

  • Tailored Experience: Each ceremony is customized to fit your unique situation, ensuring that your needs and preferences are honored throughout the process.

Why Closure is Essential

Moving forward without proper closure can be like carrying an invisible weight. The unresolved feelings, the unspoken words, and the lingering regrets can follow you into your future relationships.

Whether you realize it now or not – you’re not able to love as fully or as earnestly as you were before. 

So how do you change this?

You have to make space to process the pain of separation. Make space to process the grief, so that you can find true healing and closure.

Hi — I’m Randi.

Since losing my parents at age 3, I’ve been on a journey to help others find a better relationship with all kinds of loss — from death, to separation, and more.

I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Relationship Coach, Grief Support Specialist and a trained Internal Family Systems (IFS) practitioner.

No matter what kind of uncoupling or separation you’re going through: I’m here to help you intentionally honor your relationship endings., and create a healthy environment to move forward.

Each Intentional Divorce or Uncoupling Ceremony is tailored to meet the specific needs and preferences of the couple. The process typically involves three sessions for each person:

  1. Individual Sessions: Begin with separate meetings (for you and your partner). Randi will get to know each of you, learn where your relationship is at, and understand your hopes and expectations for the ceremony.

  2. The Ceremony: During the ceremony, you will be guided through the act of creating a sacred space. This is the time when you get to express unspoken words, share regrets or apologies, acknowledge the lessons learned, and offer wishes for each other's future. Elements such as fire ceremonies or candle lighting may be included to symbolize the end of the relationship.

  3. Post-Ceremony Check-In: About a week after the ceremony, you have a follow-up session with Randi to ensure you are feeling supported and to address any lingering emotions or needs.

The Structure of the Ceremony

Take the next step:

When you make space for healing and integration, this creates ripple effects and benefits for everyone around you.

Your future relationships (and your future self) will benefit. Your other relationships benefit too: Your friendships. Your family-ships. Your connections with your children. 

Limited 3 spots are available for 2025.

Submit an inquiry today.