Legacy Love
A Self-Paced Journey for those grieving
the death of a parent or caregiver
"I wasn’t ready to process it—so I didn’t."
When my grandmother died earlier this year, I barely had time to breathe.
She was the one who raised me—the closest person who I had to a mother. And yet, when she passed, I was coming back from maternity leave, juggling a newborn, running a business, and just trying to survive. And transparently, my relationship with her was so complicated, I felt so overwhelmed with where to even begin to honor that loss and grieve that relationship.
I knew she was gone. But I couldn’t wrap my mind around it.
And so, I didn’t.
I kept going. I pushed through. I carried the weight of her loss without ever fully sitting with it.
But that weight never went away. Because grief doesn’t work on a schedule. Grief doesn’t hit all at once.
Grief comes in waves—sometimes slow and soft, sometimes sharp and unpredictable, sometimes years later, when you least expect it.
No matter how long it’s been since you lost your parent, grandparent, caregiver, or parental figure—the grief never really goes away.
But you don’t have to navigate it alone.
That’s why I created Legacy Love.
Imagine being met exactly where you are in your grief process- wherever you’re at with it.
Learn how to call in support that ACTUALLY feels good
Identify things that were left unsaid or incomplete
Create closure in that relationship, AND being able to determine how you want your connection with that person to look moving forward.
…ALL IN THE SAME PROGRAM?!
What is Legacy Love?
A self-paced healing journey for anyone who has lost a parent or caregiver.
Legacy Love is a self-guided video course designed to help you process your loss, honor your relationship, and navigate the lifelong journey of grieving someone who shaped your life.
Whether your relationship with your loved one was filled with love, complexity, or unresolved tension, this course is here to support you.
Grief is never just one thing. It’s messy. It’s layered. It evolves.
Legacy Love is a space to help you move through the hard emotions, embrace the love that remains, and find ways to carry their legacy forward.
How this works:
Inside Legacy Love, you’ll find:
14 self-paced video modules spread over 3 months, but accessible anytime
A supportive, guided process that meets you exactly where you’re at
Step-by-step guidance for how to tend to your own grief, build connection with your parent or caregiver, create closure where available, and identify the relationship you want to have with them moving forward.
Each module builds on the previous one, guiding you through a thoughtful, compassionate process.
Complete each session at your own pace—there's no rush, just steady progress toward a deeper connection with yourself and your loved one.
Weekly Overview
Week 1: Opening the Container & Getting Started
This module is all about opening the container & orienting to the program. Feel prepared to get started and move through this program.
Week 2: Grief & Your Unique Journey
This week is all about identifying what grief means to you and exploring where you are in your grief journey. During this week, you will learn to identify what has and has not been helpful in terms of support, and explore what you gravitate towards with regards to relief. (The more you know about these things, the better you can tend to your system and invite in support that actually helps.)
Week 3: Identifying Supports
This week is about identifying relief strategies that are helpful vs not helpful, and healthy vs not healthy. Learn how to give to your loved ones guidance on what you need, so they can better attune to you and support you.
Week 4: Connecting with the One You Lost
During this week, you will explore the quality of the connection you have with your loved one through symbolism, drawing, and playing with embodiment.
Week 5: Relationship Timeline
This week is all about creating a timeline of the relationship and identifying significant moments where your loved one really showed up well in the relationship, as well as moments that hurt or missed the mark. Doing this helps you to balance both the ways you remember the person, and the narrative you have of the quality of the connection between you.
Week 6: Timeline Review
This week is all about sharing the timeline and noticing what happens when you use your voice to outline the relationship. It is also about identifying things left unsaid in the relationship to support a sense of closure.
Week 7: Letter Writing
This week is for consolidating all of the work that you’ve done thus far into a letter to your parent figure. (This letter is for YOU, in service of the growth and healing of the relationship you do or don’t have with the person you’ve lost.)
Week 8: Letter Reading
This module is all about the power of using your voice to deliver messages, as well as the power of being witnessed.
Week 9: Letter Receiving
This week is all about trust and surrender as it relates to building connection with your loved one. This week is a bit “out there,” but can be a deeply powerful and profound process if you open yourself to the possibility.
Week 10: Honoring Significant Days
This week is all about anticipating and identifying significant days that will come up throughout the year and exploring ways you’d like to honor them.
Week 11: Future Relationship Vision Board
This week is about creating something that will serve as a visual reminder and representation of the relationship you want to create with your loved one going forward.
Week 12: Setting Up Your Space
During this week, you’ll learn how to create a sacred space where you can bring your grief and feelings.
Week 13: Processing Endings & Closing Ritual
This week is all about processing endings in general and specifically in relation to this container and creating a closing ritual.
Week 14: Closing the Container & Next Steps
This week is all about integrating your experience, as you close this grief container and identify next steps.
What Makes This Program Different?
Oftentimes people who are grieving are looking for a more specific and tangible process than simply sharing their feelings.
This program is different from other forms of grief treatment or therapy because it is both flexible -meeting you exactly where you are at, and structured with enough of a container and flow to hold you in an effective process that helps you build your “grieving muscle” as you go.
This program uniquely provides something for those parts of us who want to “do something,” while teaching you and holding you in honoring the “being with” at the same time.
There is no other program like this out there that is designed specifically for parent or caregiver loss.
Join the Waitlist
Doors officially open June 1 but if join the waitlist, you’ll get:
✅ $50 off when the doors open (YES! Just for joining the waitlist- no strings attached!)
✅ Early bird access—purchase the course one week before it opens to the public
✅ A gift —The first 10 people to enroll will receive the gift of a 30-minute personalized grief support call with me, Randi Hall
Course Price: $333
Hi — I’m Randi.
As someone who lost both my parents at the tender age of 3, was raised by aging grandparents, and later lost my mother-in-law during the pandemic at age 31 right before having my first baby. I am well-versed in the complicated experience that arises with the death of a parent and caregiver.
Throughout my life, grief has always been my greatest teacher. Today I am a Marriage and Family Therapist, Relationship Coach, Grief Support Specialist and a trained Internal Family Systems (IFS) practitioner who supports folks in honoring their grief.
Each and every one of us will one day experience the death of a parent. The Legacy Love program is my offering to all of us.
Even if your relationship with that parent was complicated: you deserve the space to grieve, process, and heal.
Let’s do it together.
FAQs
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Not at all. You may already know this: but grief isn’t linear, and grief never goes away. Grief comes up at the most unexpected moments. Grief is always with us.
It’s never too late (or too soon) to learn how to process and tap into your feelings.
No matter if your parent / parent figure passed one month ago or ten years ago – you are welcome here.
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No, Legacy Love is a completely self-guided journey. There are no live calls; instead, there are 14 video modules to gently guide you through creating closure and honoring your relationship with the person you’ve lost.
However, the first 10 people to purchase this program will get a free 30 min call with Randi.
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I hear you. If you’d like to work through this process live and with guidance from a real human being, I offer this program LIVE in a one-on-one private grief support container just for you, at your own pace! Please click here [insert link] to learn more.
Legacy Love is perfect for you if:
You want to clarify the kind of support from others that actually feels good and call that in.
You want to heal the parts of your relationship where things are left unsaid or undone.
You want to find a way to honor their legacy.
You are grieving someone other than a parent or caregiver. This program is also completely appropriate for navigating the death of anyone that matters to you.
You want to create closure on your own terms.
You want to create or continue your connection with this person moving forward.
Legacy Love is NOT for you if:
You are looking for a live interaction with other human beings (if this is you, check out one-on-one grief support).
You want to process grief related to something ASIDE from the death of a parent or caregiver. (If this is you, check out other ways to work with me).
You are looking for a way to “feel better” that is a quick fix. (There is no guarantee of “feeling better” – in fact, some of the exercises in Legacy Love might ask for you to sit with your discomfort. But the intention behind this self-guided journey is to give you the tools to navigate your grief, so you can move forward feeling more confident and capable riding those waves if and, more likely when they return.)
“Have I effectively grieved the loss of this important human in my life?”
If you want the answer to this question to be a YES, then…
It’s time for Legacy Love!
Grief is a lifelong journey. But you don’t have to walk it alone.
Ready to let that support in?